Konichiwear Contest: How to be a “Sexy” someBODY!

This particular shirt was given to me by Century Tuna, and yes, you read it right–the shirt states: “Shy but sexy.”

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Orange Blazer: BCBG Maxazria |Navy Belt: Guangzhou | Yellow Shorts: Forever 21

Okay, so funny story: when I was given the design options for the shirts, I gravitated instantly towards this piece–but for a rather strange and crazy reason. See, when I browsed through the selection, I saw pink and my world actually blew over. When I tried to scrutinize it, I read: “single but sexy” (props to me for being way too self-absorbed) but to be fair, it was directly after I replied to a strange tweet-inquiry I got from @bloggersPH a month or so ago.

Imagine my surprise when I got the shirt.

My first reaction was a very loud: “Hahahaha, shy? Me?”

So I showed it to one of my close friends and she went: “it’s strangely very appropriate.” Now that I think about it, there is some sort of truth in it. The thing is, just because you’re a blogger, people automatically assume that you don’t have moments of “shyness” and quite the contrary, you “crave the attention.” I’m not saying that’s wholly incorrect but well, different people, different purposes, and I know it’s going to be hard to believe when I say this but I’m actually a very anti-social person.

Well, I was, rather.

I am the type of person who would not say a word to other people when in a party. I would probably smile out of courtesy but I would never strike up a conversation and I would never speak unless asked. It’s not because I’m a snob, I wish I had the willpower to be one but to be honest, I just feel really awkward.

I got into blogging to express myself. Yes, maybe it was for a little attention but not the attention you’re thinking of. The thing is, I always fancied myself a good writer–sure, a few grammatical and syntax errors here and there, but I always thought I had a lot of things to communicate so why not get a blog?

But the thing is, once you become a blogger, you can’t stay shy forever. Not when you have events to attend and fellow bloggers to mingle with! Sure, I usually don’t initiate conversations (maybe I’m just socially inept) but I try my best to go out of my way to greet each and every one of those I know personally.

Plus, not that I’m an Account Manager, I really do have to learn how to get along with all sorts of people. I learned to be friendly and I learned that “being shy” should not hinder you to connect with various individuals. If I don’t then I won’t be able to do good with my job.

Anyway, so sorry for the extremely tedious monologue! Here are a few photos of the shirt:

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Hello from China, by the way!

Now, on to the sexy part!

I’ve always had body issues for the longest time. Maybe it’s why I’m still somewhat “shy.” Back in my late elementary to mid-high school years, I was that fat kid who got casted in multiple male roles in an all-girls-school. Consequently, I was also that fat kid who neglected to learn anything about fashion because no appropriate piece would look good on her.

Fast forward to my last year in High School and just like that, I lost a whopping 50 lbs. I got to a scary point but let’s save that story for some other time.

Now, I’m in a rather healthy range. Not my ideal weight, mind you, but healthy nonetheless. When I got off college however and started working, I gained a whopping 10 lbs and it scared me. I felt that I was losing control not only of my weight but of my choices as well.

It was only until recently that I decided to take initiative (think, a month ago). Here’s where my relationship with Century Tuna comes in see, to lose all the “stress-induced weight” I gained, I had to make “healthier options.” So I blocked off fast food chains and minimized my carbohydrates and sugar intake, and I started to throw in vegetables into my dietary plan and loads of fish.

When I think of my favorite fish dish, I always think of Tuna–seared tuna, raw tuna sashimi, and tuna straight out of the can. When we say “tuna straight out of the can”, we think of “Century Tuna” right away–no lies there. Every filipino in my generation grew up eating it and by God, you will know if the tune you’re eating is “Century Tuna.”

Even my close friend who migrated to Canada a year or so ago, specifies for cans to be brought to her when her dad visits.

So yes, tuna in brine or tuna chunks in water is my diet secret. I have tuna sandwiches for lunch, and sometimes for dinner–I have them mixed with the usual calorie-reduced mayo and add a dash of rosemary and thyme. If I want to give myself a break and cheat a slight bit, I use Japanese mayo instead. Haha!

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So if you’re shy like me or if your description fits any of the following (and I say a lot of you would agree with me when I say I missed my calling when I failed to choose the first shirt in green), check these shirts out:

 

 



 

 

 

 

THE HOW TO BE SOMEBODY PART

If you’re used to my blog posts as of late, you would know that I use this particular area at the end of the blog to remind you about my long-standing “frequent commenter” contest. It’s now September and it’s high time I announce the winners of my August contest but unfortunately, I am in China with little to limited access of just about anything internet-related. So I promise, once I get back to the Philippines, I will let you know who the lucky winners of the 2 pairs of So Fab! shoes are.

For now however, I have a rather special, one-of-a-kind contest. The prize at steak is an inclusion in a Cosmopolitan Magazine spread with myself and a few more other fellow bloggers. Here’s what you can do to join:

1. Choose a shirt design that best describes you and explain why in your comment.

2. Add Konichiwear in Bloglovin and twitter.

3. Like the Century Tuna page in Facebook and add them on twitter as well.

4. Invite friends to know more about Konichiwear and Century Tuna by making an entry explaining this contest or just the shirts. Don’t forget to comment with the blog URL or tweet URL (tag @dominiquetiu for monitoring purposes).

And that’s about it. See! Simple! Winner will be announced next week along with the So Fab! Winners. September’s prize will involve pretty-fying the eyes. Can you take a wild guess on what it is?

  • http://domzistumbling.tumblr.com/ Dominique Tiu

    Sample comment: 

    1. I chose Nerdy but Sexy because dudes dig the sexy nerdy chick. 
    2. Added Konichiwear on BlogLovin and Twitter. 
    3. Liked Century Tuna on Facebook and added them on twitter. 
    4. http://www.hereismyblogurl.com

    - NAME: DOMINIQUE TIU
    - EMAIL: dominiquetiu@gmail.com

  • Anonymous

    As much as I want to join you and the rest of the fab bloggers in a magazine (Wow bongga! Dream ko yun haha), I am anything but sexy. LOL maybe I’d go on a Century Tuna diet too. T_T And do tell me your other diet secrets. 50 pounds wow. X_X

  • http://andrewicecream.tumblr.com/ Andrew Sales

    Dominique you are sexy kahit ano pa ang body type mo sexy ka parin! ^_^ v have fun in china take care! ^_^ v

  • Anonymous

    1. I chose Shy but Sexy because I still believe a “Modern Maria Clara” would exist.
    2. Added Konichiwear in Bloglovin and Twitter.
    3. Century Tuna on Facebook and Followed the on Twitter.
    4. Shared the contest on twitter.
    Twitter Username : mnSPOONilla

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=810795911 Apple Mateo

    Hi Dominique! I think it’s ok to be shy sometimes, I rather be one than be the assuming, feeling-close lady who strikes up a convo with anyone in an event. :) Can’t believe you were a chubby kid then, me too haha! 

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=810795911 Apple Mateo

    And oopps, didn’t join the contest coz I’m too ‘shy’ to be in a mag! 

  • http://twitter.com/happiecharlotte Lor Barut!

    I love Century Tuna’s boneless bangus (the canned one). So delicious. Anyway, thanks for sharing a diet secret. Hope you’re having fun in China~ :D

  • http://www.facebook.com/emokit09 Roanne Antonio Valles

    hello Domz.. I have the same dilemma, people thought I’m snob and maarte as well. I’m also a type of person who doesn’t speak unless asked too. And hey! can’t even imagine you used to be a FAT kid. hahahahah…that makes me want to see an elementary or a high school pic of yours. hahahah.. I also agree that Century tuna is part of every Filipino’s lives.. :)

  • Caitlin88

    I super love century tuna, in fact I just finished my plate of tuna spag.. so healthy and yummy! 

    The shirt looks great on you, fun contest though and uber-cute prize! 

  • Meg

    I can’t imagine you as a fat kid. Haha! But i bet you were adorable, still. Aww those shirts are so cute! Though I can’t imagine myself wearing one since sexy is something that I just don’t know how to be. Haha!:) and good tip about the tuna!;)

  • http://aninaplenos.tumblr.com anina plenos

    the shirt suits you perfectly! anyway, i know you’re from cebu, so did you study in Hijas? or STC? i know you didn’t study in CIC for sure coz i went there and i did not see you. HAHA! nakarelate ako sa part when you’re casted as male for a play or school prod. ako rin! always! i don’t know why, im not fat naman. but i enjoyed it though, less hassle for the costume, right? :P

  • http://aninaplenos.tumblr.com anina plenos

    hi dom! i can best relate to the shirt ‘nerd but sexy’. i am a self-confessed nerd, but not the bad type of nerd. my classmates even call me ‘naning’ but i am just very studious and make it a point that i get good grades. bahala na nerd basta sexy. oh diba? HAHA!

    btw, here’s my blog entry about this contest: http://tumblr.com/xgy4in0d0i

    more power dom! :)

  • http://thehungrybrainy.blogspot.com/ Mars Gemilga

    Oh mi gooosh.  I can never pick a shirt for myself, because I am not sexy. I am a chubby, fat kid. I am fat since 1992 up until now. I could never ever discipline myself to minimize my food intake and to exercise. T_T   Thanks for the tuna enlightenment. 

    By the way, of all fashion bloggers, I can say that you are THE writer. You engage me with the way you write, so keep on blogging.Hmm.. I guess September’s prize is Ciba Vision contact lens. :) )

  • Anonymous

    What a nice blog post! I agree on the fact that not all bloggers are very sociable — because I, am anti-social to an extent (but, I’m a socially courteous person naman kahit ganon). Anyway, I think the best shirt that fits me is “Nerdy but Sexy”. I’m not physically sexy but I’m a daring individual when it comes to other things so the shy one is not appropriate. Also the fact that I geek out (a lot) to my fandoms is a testament of being a nerd minus the fact that studying is my life 24/7 (at least right now, haha.)

    Intelligence is sexy, period.

  • Ellen

    1. The shirt that describes me the most is the fourth and last one, ‘Shy, but sexy’ in white. I like the winter time and I’m always cold. 

    2. I followed you on twitter. I’m @wanderlust:disqus ilovemypolaroid. I followed you on Bloglovin’. I’m [at]wanderlust.
    3. I liked Century Tuna on facebook and followed them on twitter.
    4. I tweeted about you on twitter to advertise about you! 

    I think September’s prize will be mascara.

  • http://www.facebook.com/emokit09 Roanne Antonio Valles

    1. I chose can’t dance but Sexy because even if i don’t have talent in dancing, i can make people dance just looking at my sexy body. :)
    2. Added Konichiwear on BlogLovin and Twitter (emokit09). 
    3. Liked Century Tuna on Facebook and added them on twitter. 
    4. http://foodforfashion.tumblr.com/ and http://roanneantonio.tumblr.com/

    - NAME: Roanne Antonio
    - EMAIL: babykitty81503@gmail.com

  • http://twitter.com/woshikathper19 Kathleen Perez

    The “shy but sexy” Century Tuna shirt fits me. I’ve always
    been the conservative type when it comes to the clothes I wear. I’m not used to
    wearing clothes that show off much skin. But as time and trends go by, I
    learned to try and experiment styles that can show some skin yet don’t
    compromise my “shyness”. I’m now more open to wearing different styles of
    clothes which perfectly reveal my personality and my “sexy” side. Shy can be
    sexy! It sends off the mysterious vibe in you! J
    And besides, being sexy doesn’t require showing off much skin. With a chic and
    decent choice of style, self-confidence and just “being yourself” make you a
    whole lot sexier! J

  • http://twitter.com/woshikathper19 Kathleen Perez
  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Patricia-Gabielle-Carino/1326375385 Patricia Gabielle Carino

    aww. it would be great if im sexy, but i guess im not.  :( i think im just sexy in my own little way and to accept and love myself. :D

  • superkarenpm

    Shy and sexy. ,
          In reality im a really shy type person, some would say they are afraid to approach me because i look mataray. Also according to my friends, their first impression about me is  being maarte and im somehow mahinhin because i dress differently and fix myself up and im a quite person inside the class and in a crowd.i don’t talk too much even though im with my friends. i take sometimes before i could finally open up. The time my friends got to know me, yes im still mahinhin(according to them)  but really not maarte at all, i could also do some weird and wacky stuffs that definitely change their impression about me.
         maybe i do dress up differently, sometimes people often ask me “bat nka ganyan ka?”( referring on what i wear). but this is because  i want to look good and feel good for myself (and not for the others).  Looking beautiful and sexy in front of the mirror(myself) makes me confident facing the other people.

    indeed im shy but sexy!

  • marge888

    http://twitter.com/#!/compromise88/status/112081986100789248
    I love to see my niece in a century tuna I can’t dance sexy T-shirt. I want to surprise her for a cosmopolitan magazine spread. Since she is studying and have no time to tweet of Fb this will be my late birthday gift

  • http://www.plurk.com/autumnsong/invite Daal

    1. I chose Nerdy but Sexy because I’m really nerdy. I have these moments when I have to stop myself from answering someone or saying a joke because my arguments are nerdy. If I’m with friends who are really close with me, I can be my natural nerdy self. As for the “sexy” part, I think that having brains is sexy. Any one who can flaunt their intelligence (without being arrogant of course) is definitely sexy in my book.
    2. Added Konichiwear on BlogLovin’ and Twitter. 
    3. Liked Century Tuna on Facebook and added them on Twitter. 
    4. Blog: http://denieceliza.wordpress.com/2011/09/09/century-tuna-sexy-shirts-plus-konichiwear-contest/
    Tweet: http://twitter.com/#!/natsumyre/status/112053044866330625

    - NAME: Deniece Liza- EMAIL: denieceliza [at] gmail [dot] com- FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/daaliza
    - TWITTER: http://www.twitter.com/natsumyre

  • MA. CARMI ZATE

    hello doms,

    i must say the shirts are very cool and i WANTED one for myself. :) I would choose NERDY BUT SEXY because that encapsulates my entire personality and everyone would agree to it. From elementary to college, I study hard so that I will be part of the honor list or dean’s list. But despite being nerd, I also make sure that I will exude sexiness not just in terms of body curves but the way I handle myself – I love being confident and this makes me sexy :)

    already following you and century tuna on twitter/ bloglovin/ FB and tweeted about this here: http://twitter.com/#!/happy_cee/status/112114381264924672

    twitter name: happy_cee 
    FB name: Carmi Zate
    carmizate@gmail.com

  • Mia Pookernut

    thanks for the tuna advice!:) will do the same!

  • http://www.facebook.com/gleenish Glee Nish Alejandrino

    NERDY BUT SEXYThis shirt really fits my personality because back in high school days all of my classmates and teachers thinks that i’m a nerdy kind of girl, who could have  blame them , they always saw me wearing a very large eye reading glasses and a braces and sees me in the library most of the times, i even stay at one side of the classroom and don’t talk to anyone, they say that i’m an intelligent but a single-minded person obsessed with a nonsocial hobby.I also often excluded from physical activity and considered to be a loner by others, that will tend to associate with a small group of like-minded people, they also generally considered me to be awkward and shy but attractive in terms of my get-up because even if i wore a very large glasses and a braces i do still have a sense of fashion, i wear mini skirts and a leggings as the bottom and a tube top with a black blazer when the wash day(Wednesday) came. I LOVE BEING A NERDY BUT SEXY……Already Add Konichiwear on twitter Already Like the Century Tuna in FB and TwitterAlready invite friends http://twitter.com/#!/gLeeNisH/status/112182566727057408I love Your Blog… Nice…

  • Anonymous

    i like the shy but sexy shirt =))

  • Anonymous

    i like the shy but sexy shirt =))

  • http://twitter.com/xoxoyanne yanne

    shy but sexy…best describes me! There’s something about reserved type girls, like me, that makes me undeniably sexy. Maybe because i’m somewhat of a mystery to others :)
    https://twitter.com/#!/xoxoyanne/status/112497138818224128

  • http://twitter.com/edithseruela Edith Seruela Garcia

    i love the shirt can’t dance sexy. Simply stated, someone who is sexy needs to be confident. They have to believe in what they’re doing… So what if i can’t dance, as long as i have the confidence, i believe I’m sexy.https://twitter.com/#!/edithseruela/status/112501889970610177

  • http://twitter.com/karlitapatreng Karla Patricia

    Nerdy but sexy! <3 I can't explain why I'm so addicted to Sudoku and I'm such a history buff. I really want to know everything of the past of anything (including gossips. HAHA!) But really, I still find a way to read books whenever I can. ;) But at the same time, I'm sexy because despite of my "nerdyness", people find me as a "know-it-all" in a good way, giving me confidence and feeling sexy! <3

  • http://paperlungss.tumblr.com Joanne Perez

    Shy but sexy. Just like you, I’m kind of anti-social. And of course, I cant deny the fact that I’m sexy lol

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1669013389 Chai Dela Torre

    Twitter name:  @chaidelatorre:twitter Google Friend Connect username :  @chaidelatorre:disqus                                                                                                                                      Which Century Tuna shirt design do you like the most and why?Answer:I like the pink shirt that says “Shy but sexy”.  In a crowd or a party, I am the type of person who would just smile and just observe the crowd.  You won’t ever see me start a conversation or talk to someone unless someone talks to me first. It’s not because I’m not confident, infact, I put extra effort in making myself look good whenever I go out (now that’s the sexy part! ) but because I just feel awkward when it comes to talking to a stranger or someone that I barely know.  I’m THAT shy.  Shyness has always been  one of my insecurities but I’m learning to overcome it since my work forces me to speak up and talk to a lot of people.  Besides, I am confident with how I look and how I present myself so I guess there’s no reason for me to be shy.   So those are my reason why I love that adorable pink shirt ( I can imagine myself rocking that  pink shirt already LOL)  that says “Shy but sexy”. :) )

  • Audri

    The shirt that best describes me would be “shy but sexy” I have to admit from my childhood up to now i am the kind of girl that is very shy. When I describe sexy its not just about the figures, what I consider is having a healthy being that is why I am very confident to say that I am shy but sexy! :)
    Twitter name: Fashionslave101

  • acosta.ysabella

    The shirt that I think best describes me is the “Shy, But Sexy” shirt. Why? Well, the statement speaks for itself. I’m a shy person, and somehow I seem intimidating, mataray, masungit etc. to people. lol. I get that a lot, seriously. But the truth is, I’m just not the kind of person who talks to someone first. I’ll wait for you to come to me. XD I think it’s because I think that if I try to start a convo, they’ll think I’m FC/epal. And I’m not a fan of reciting in class. ;D I’m scared of screwing up and embarassing myself. 

    I started a tumblr account to express myself. `Cause that’s where I can be crazy (other than here, at home) without being judged. Haha. I’m just more comfortable in expressing myself in other ways other than words(orally, I mean.) I can draw and doodle, even if I suck at it, you know, things like that.And sexy? Define sexy, please? Hahaha.Uhh. Well, I don’t get fat. lol.  But I guess not getting fat doesn’t really make me sexy. A lot of people think otherwise, though. In the past, I really didn’t care how I looked. But ever since high school, I got way more concious of my body. I tried to stop drinking coke (I love coke. omg.) and more water, and I guess I gained a little weight. Haha. My body isn’t perfect, though. Although, I have confidence in myself, and in how I look. But that’s not just what makes a person sexy. I mean, we can be sexy in our own little ways – by just being ourselves. ♥ And besides, the shy type is sexy, isn’t it? 

    TWEET URL: http://twitter.com/#!/queenysabella/status/112879658948763649

  • elaine dizon

    Without a doubt, I’d choose the pink ‘Shy but Sexy’ shirt.Ever since, I am not the type of person who strikes up a conversation first, I always wait for the other person to talk to me first.The thought of public speaking is really dreadful to me. But other than these, I think there is a certain sexiness to shy people. Maybe it’s because we’re a tad bit mysterious than others (chos!), or maybe shy people move in a way that is calm and reserved.
    But it all boils down to one thing, we are all sexy, we just need to accept ourselves!
    Like me. :> I am really proud of who I am, and that’s what makes me sexy! woot! :P
    A girl is at her sexiest when she loves herself!

    Mas effective na nga ang power of the mind kaysa sa liposuction na yan eh. ‘Pag kailangan kong magsuot ng fitted na shirt, iniisip ko na lang na sexy ako. Tapos ayun, okay na. Chos! :) )tweet url: https://twitter.com/#!/elainecassandra/status/112886330236735489

  • Bellellido

    ‘Selosa’ but Sexy…I picked this design because among the century tuna shirts, this particular shirt speaks of what I feel each time my boy talks to a girl (grrrrrr). I’m selosa because I believe that there is only one person for us; someone whom we can call our own—not that he is an object of possession but because he is the one who is destined for our loving heart. I think it’s just right to feel jealous each time the person fated for us seemingly clings to someone else. Nonetheless, my self-esteem always wins over; I’m still proud of my sexiness (the whole essence of it), I know he’ll pick me no matter what. In the end, it’s my hand he will hold on to; it’s my sexiness he will ponder upon.

  • http://twitter.com/sombrito kimberly

    ‎”NERDY BUT SEXY  this is sooo me, I’m really glad that Century Tuna design a statement shirt where I can express the real me and be PROUD of it! Since elementary  I am the typical type of  a NERDY student, whose always carry a complete set of 8-10 textbooks for my  subjects, plus an extra dictionary which I religiously read when recess and break time instead of playing “Chinese Garter” with my friends. In high school I’m always part of the top ten outstanding students, my certificate, trophy and medal is my BOYFRIEND! Hahaha ! I know reminiscing all this now makes me laugh but hell yeah Proud of if it BIG TIME! College days came my friends always tease me of being a nerd  because  I’m always part of the deans Lister every semester but one thing change I am now a nerdy who knows how to interact and socialize, knows when to PARTEEYY and be COOL! I learned how to balance my school life and social life!  I learned that real life exist outside the books! Haha! 
    Now, Im still proud of being a NERD, actually I made a vow; I
    want to commit  myself to a pursuit of intellect. I’m already a nerd, so this wasn’t really an alien concept for me. I will make it my top priority: educate my self more.  I would engage my self more in reading documentaries, follow interesting blogs or maybe learn a new word everyday. I will attend more events and explore the outside world other than internet and textbooks.

    As my fave motto says, “Anyone who stops learning
    is old, whether at 20 or 80. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The
    greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young.” So being a NERD/NERDY is DEFINITELY  FUN AND SEXY ;)

     tweet: https://twitter.com/#!/sombrito/status/113361290294079488

  • http://domzistumbling.tumblr.com/ Dominique Tiu

    Hi, you are the winner of this contest. Will you be able to free up your schedule this Sat 10 AM?

  • http://twitter.com/Bea_525 Bea

    I know that this contest is closed and you have announced the winner but I’d be “NERDY but Sexy” and “SHY buy sexy.” I’m nerdy but sexy because I believe that being sexy doesnt mean having the perfect body but being able to carry yourself physically and mentally. I’m an honor student and I wear glasses because I have problems with my vision, that makes me nerdy. I always think that looking nerdy doesnt look nice but I think I have changed my mind. I think can look fashionable even if I wear glasses, I just need to pick the clothes that looks nice and matches with my glasses. I even think that being smart is sexy because you get to carry yourself by being intelligent in choosing your decisions, etc. Ano daww? =)). Just shaaaaaaring. 

  • mr.sleepyhead

    Awesome shirts!! <3<3<3 I was wondering where can we get these shirts too? :D :D :D

  • Jane_89

    you were overweight before? no way! i can’t even picture you that way! you have a pic or something? haha. merry xmas!